Japan’s youth has apparently gone off sex to such an extent that the phenomena has been given its own name: sekkusu shinai shokogun, or ‘celibacy syndrome.’ A by now widely touted 2013 survey conducted by the Japan Family Planning Association found that 45% of women aged 16-24 “were not interested in or despised sexual contact.” Just over a quarter of men surveyed said the same.

When I first received my IRIS (for my 34th birthday) I remember rolling my eyes at my husband. We had always joked that I wasn’t a ‘flowers and chocolates’ kind of girl but he still liked to sneak origami flowers or roses made of soap into my birthday gifts.

There are many reasons often cited for not wearing a condom, and while we won’t address their validity or lack thereof here―the issues with modern condom design are for another article―we will instead focus on all the reasons why using condoms can be pretty great!

Charged Positive features the most power ever to come from Screaming O, boasting penetrating vibration that rivals the industry’s strongest (and some of its largest) massagers. Charged Positive packs deep, rumbling sensations into a conveniently portable shape to set a new standard for this lucrative product category. And to top it off, Charged Positive and its 20 powerful functions are available for less than $60 MSRP.

Possibly the best part about My Secret Panty is that it’s sleek enough to wear under clothing and pretty enough to complement your current lingerie

Whether you’re just a beginner when it comes to having anal sex (and making sure its enjoyed by both partners!) or you’re well-versed in using anal toys and the benefits of prostate massage, chances are you’ve formed a preference for the best sex position for it, or at least the one that works best for you and your partner.

Imagining Rebecca lying in my bed was just like watching porn as a teenager. I had to hide my sexual fantasies in the morning shower, just as I hid those x-rated videos within folder within folder in the deepest recesses of my computer’s hard drive. We’d been close colleagues, even work friends, from the start, although I had technically become her managing boss more than 3 years ago.

Monarch has an extra-wide wing span and multiple contact points – firm-but-flexible wings, a ribbed middle, and two extended “antennae” – that pay attention to way more than just the clitoris. Wide wings massage the labia and surrounding sensitive areas while the antennae send direct stimulation everywhere they touch, and there’s nothing quite like a full-spectrum massage with no hands required!

To make your body paint, mix the following ingredients in a sauce pan on low heat or in a double boiler: 3 tablespoons of water, a pinch of salt, 1/3 cup of sugar, 2 tablespoons of butter (or vegetable/ coconut oil)1/4 cup of cocoa powder or a shavings from bar chocolate and 1/2 teaspoon of vanilla extract. Stir it until all the sugar and chocolate have melted and the mixture is glossy, then remove from heat to let it cool. Even if you’re into temperature play, you should definitely let it cool down and test before putting it all over your partner’s body; it can be reheated in the microwave and stored in fridge if needed.

The term ‘Kegels’ is what most people use to refer to their pelvic floor, which are a hammock-like group of muscles that keep your bladder and lower intestines where they are. They are so called because a Dr. Kegel was the first to create exercises for strengthening the pelvic floor. The best way to locate your pelvic floor muscles is to squeeze the muscles that help you stop the flow of urine.

There are countless ways to enhance the pleasure of sex. Sexual moisturizers and introducing sex toys into the bedroom are both ways to immediately start exploring new sexual avenues. Reading erotica, watching adult films together, finding new and exciting places to make love – all of these are exhilarating ways to have better sex.

If you’re setting off for sexy summer travels, you’re perhaps thinking of taking some of your trusty pleasure items with you. And as proud as we are of our beautiful range of stylish products, we appreciate that having to show them off to security personnel is less than ideal.

Our aforementioned survey found that women are exploring the great outdoors more than ever by going public with sex. So as we enter the final days of the year why not take some tips from our sensual surveyors and pick at least three of our most adrenaline-inducing public destinations to sexplore over the next 31 days? If you’re new to putting the ‘wild’ in wilderness, fear not because LELO is here as your appointed guide

While we are certainly fans of kinky, acrobatic sex positions, there are also times when all we want is to make time stop, truly enjoying and exulting in our partner’s body and our shared pleasure. Below, we offer the best sex positions for delighting in the journey, not the destination.

Perhaps it’s something you haven’t tried since high school, but car sex can add a sexy element to partner play that can still get your motor running, ifyouknowwhatwemean. No matter what make or model you’re driving, as long as it’s got 4 wheels (5, including the steering wheel), you can try out any of our suggested car sex positions, provided you take the following precautions before taking any of them for a spin: